How to get over your girlfriend
No, we’re not instantly going to tell you to book a London escort, we’re not that brazen. There is a “grieving process” that has to be dealt with first in our opinion. This is what today’s article is all about. The things you can do to help.
We’re talking about damage control here gentlemen, not more carnage, so it’s really best to stay away from all girls to begin with. This includes London escorts. You’d think we’d be telling you something different, right? Well, as we said, we’re not that bad!
Get rid of her stuff
If you lived together, or even if she just spent a significant amount of time at your place, you’re bound to have things laying around that will always remind you of her. Her clothes, her ornaments, anything. If you feel you should return it, make sure you pack it respectfully (you’re better than that!) and deliver it to a friend of hers. Don’t announce that you’re coming either, it will allow your ex to prepare something that may affect you. Remember, this is about getting over your girlfriend.
Don’t go to the same places
You may like that bar after work, the one you went to together sometimes, but it doesn’t matter. Ditch it and find somewhere else. If you have friends that mean anything to you, they’ll come with you or help you in some way or another. Take a different route home from work too, or a different walk anywhere for that matter. Do not go the same way as you did with her. Join a different gym if you have to!
Never… NEVER… contact her!
We are working on the presumption that you actually want to get over your girlfriend, so this is the reason we’re telling you to sever contact. You will feel the urge during the early days, but it’s like fighting nicotine addiction, it will pass. Have faith in yourself and remain strong.
Find a hobby – Not London escorts!
You can book escorts at a later date, but now is not the time. Find yourself something that interests you outside of work and home life. Take a class in something that interests you, even if you don’t need it. You will be in different surroundings and you’ll even get a chance to meet new people.
Make new male friends
We say make male friends, simply because you won’t be tempted to try and sleep with them. It’s important to have new people in your life when you’ve had a breakup, but it’s not a good idea to get into something that may find you flirting.
When will you be over her?
You’ll be over her when you’re over her. There is no time span here, but a good indicator is when you feel like you can live your life on your own, you are comfortable with your own company and you’re not seeking the company of any other woman. Then, and only then is it a good idea to seek female companionship!
Trust us, we know what we’re talking about!