Sensual Massage - General Approach
Sensual Massage - it is a sensual touch for deep pleasure and extended sexual arousal. It's spiritual food for a human being.
We invite you to abandon your thoughts and enter your body senses. Fall effortlessly into the body and spend timeless moments in erotic trance is your birthright.
Recall pleasure of your most treasured but least utilised sense - touch. Our bodies are naturally wired for ecstasy. Our sense of touch, unlike the other senses, grows more acute with age, as does our ability to enjoy it. The tools to develop our body's innate ecstasy potential are simple and profound. These techniques are covered in Sensual Massage.
Saying "Yes" to pleasure is an acquired skill in our culture. Having fun every day is not usually written in our agenda. Our knee-jerk reaction to pleasure is, "Sounds nice, but I don't have time." Unfortunately, we don't do pleasure well.
How many of us get touched enough in our daily lives? How can a hardworking, touch-starved person become a rested, touch-fed person? Maybe being busy all the time is a waste of time? We want to show you that you don't have to decide between a life of hard work or pleasure; rather, its possible to have both!!! Balance enriches our lives, and it's important to relish in body wisdom and joy as much as you can.
We are pleasure activists! Our mantras are "Choose fun." "Do it for you." "Have it your way." We help men trade in their intellectual minds and preoccupation with "doing" for some enjoyment of the moment and feeling in their bodies.
Sensual Erotic Massage will elevate your pleasure ceiling. If you experience boredom and routine in your life, we prescribe you a regular dose of touch - the sensual, no-pressure, no-destination kind of touch. We suggest you schedule some time to explore the full body sensual massage. Pleasure is discipline. Put it on the schedule.
Sensual Massage works equally well for same-sex as for opposite-sex partners. Additionally, as having someone pleasure you with their hands doesn't tend to bring up the same set of cultural fears and judgments that oral sex or intercourse sometimes do, it sometimes works well even when your partner isn't of a gender you are normally attracted to.
We care about you and value your pleasure. So, we created a sensual and appealing environment for your sensual massage session. Our rooms illuminated with either candles or soft indirect mood lamps, scented of essential aroma oils and well heated to be comfortable for you lying down naked. Soft relaxing musing played on background.
Oils and Lubrication
We use only good quality oils, gels and lubricants along with gloves for prostate massage, which we purchase, at special massage supply shops.
All massage oils and gels are warmed up before applied on to your skin.
During both the relaxation and genital phases of your sensual massage it's important for the person on the bed (table) to always feel comfortable making requests and comments. You should feel free to mention anything that is getting in the way of your comfort and pleasure. Request to go to the bathroom, for touch to be harder or lighter, to take a break or stop, for the heat to be turned up, etc., these are all signs that levels of communication and trust are high. They are also signs that you paying attention to your feelings, which is a key to experiencing greater and greater pleasure.
You have to also discuss a possibility of sexual intimacy before going ahead with a sensual massage. Please bring this topic up beforehand.
Regular, conscious breathing is a powerful way to enhance both relaxation massage and sensual massage. If the receiving partner forgets to breathe, your therapist will remind you by breathing rhythmically and audibly.
Giving you Sensual Erotic massage
After you meat your sensual massage goddess. You both sit and have a chat. You will be offered a soft drink and a warm shower.
You lie down on the bed. Relax completely and forget outside word, Breath deeply. Your sensual massage therapist starts by relaxing and connecting with you while erotically charged music plays softly in the background. You will find her breathing will become synchronised with yours.
She whilst sensually dressed will start by quieting and focusing her mind while resting her hands on your body. You will feel the positive charged energy pass between you. Then, your sensual massage therapist will perform a relaxing massage on all over your body. She uses our basic therapeutic principles of relaxing massage. She always keeps her hands in contact with your body, never breaking the connection of energy passing between you. This is never rushed, taking her time, being rhythmic yet sensitive, and proceeding from long gliding strokes to deeper ones.
After relaxing your back, neck, legs, and feet, she will have you turn over. She now massages front of your body. She then glides down to the legs. After finishing the fronts of the legs and feet, she then glides back up and slowly brushes over the genitals, teasing them, this teasing process, is drawn out by brushing the inner thighs, near the genitals, very lightly touching the pubic region. At this point the erotic energy is building, making it a natural time to start shifting the focus to the sex centres of your body.
Massaging Your Sex Centers
At this time she will cradle your genitals allowing the erotic energy to pass between you and her. The rest of your sensual massage will now focus on the genitals, with periodic sweeps up and down your body to spread, balance, energy, and integrate the sensations. Your therapist is very skilled in reading your energy and arousal levels, she will smoothly and gradually build up from relaxing massage to more arousing and sexual sensual massage.
Your therapist will start your genital massage using a "Healing Stroke" With the penis resting on your belly, she then cups your testicles with one hand. The heel of the palm of the other hand glides up and down the underside of the penis all the way to the tip and back to the base. Also it is important to note that it is not necessary to have an erection to enjoy sensual massage.
The genital massage is never rushed. Your therapist will slow down, stop, or change what she is doing just before ejaculation becomes inevitable. This repeated "peaking" process will help you learn to have multiple orgasms without ejaculating. Although delaying ejaculation during the course of the sensual massage is desirable from the perspective of maximising pleasure, many do like to finish the sensual massage with one. This is perfectly acceptable. Ejaculation provides a considerable spark of pleasure.
Many of our client's enjoy this massage without ejaculation.
At the end of the sensual massage (whether or not there is an ejaculation), the sheet/blanket combination will be folded up over you on the table to provide a warm cocoon. This is a time of profound peace and contentment to let the amazing whole body experience languor while you relax and enjoy the sensuous music.
If you would like to have your wife or partner present during the sensual massage this is perfectly acceptable as well as encouraged. Or you can also enjoy massage together by two different therapist or just one its of your choice.
It is recommended you have a warm shower before and after your massage.
An advanced technique in male genital massage is to stimulate the man's prostate gland at the same time one is stimulating the penis. This can be done with a finger an inch or two inside his anus, pressing on the dome shape found in the direction of the penis. When stimulating the prostate, our messeuse wear latex short fingernails and use lots of lube. Part of what some beginners find novel about anal penetration is that it makes one feel as if one has to go to the bathroom. By going to the bathroom pretty thoroughly before beginning play, one may have an easier time not interpreting this new sensation in the old context. Pressing on the prostate gland during ejaculation, or when a man is close to ejaculation, can feel wonderful. It is also possible for some men to have ejaculatory orgasms through prostate stimulation alone.
Female sexual response is often significantly different from male sexual response, in the following ways:
1. Female arousal tends to be more closely tied to emotional states, and feelings of warmth towards her partner.
2. Many women can come in two distinctly different ways: through G-Spot stimulation and through clitoral stimulation. Many women characterise the clitoral orgasms as "sharper" and the G-Spot orgasms as "deeper".
3. Women often vary considerably in what type of sexual stimulation they like, and how they like it done.
4. Female arousal usually takes longer to build, but can often last longer and be more intense than that which men commonly experience.
5. Women can often have multiple orgasms, if stimulation continues following the first (especially with G-Spot stimulation).
It's because of those 5 that the basic approach to erotic massage differs between women and men. Since women can sometimes enjoy stimulation all the way through one orgasm and into the next, there is little or no need for them to hold back in any way. Having orgasms in a series can cause arousal levels to float for a long time at a very high level.